Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Emily Sarah Finch with the following comment:
I can see that there is a discrepancy between the details on the website and my own records. I have Emily Sarah Finch nee Durrant born 1864 and died 1931 (GRO and Norfolk RO), the website has 1885 and 1951. If I could see the headstone then I could check the inscription. Thank you in advance.